Ten years ago in the UK, escort services were a taboo subject – today, however, all that has changed. Escort services have been placed in the public eye with television programmes such as, Channel 4’s A very British Brothel – Can have sex, will have sex – My Granny the Escort – Sex Party Secrets, and ITV1’s successful drama series, Secret Diary of a Call Girl starring Billie Piper. And that’s just to name a few.
Recent research found that the number of men who pay for sex had doubled in a decade. The authors attributed this rise to “a greater acceptability of commercial sexual contact.” 7% of men admitted to hiring the services of an escort at least once between 1994 and 2010. Our lives are now much more stressful now – we work harder, play harder and there seems to be very little time left to enjoy a full time relationship. With this in mind, we spoke to some of our male followers and asked them the reasons why they hire escorts. Here our the top 5:
1. Want to sleep with much hotter women.
This was the top reason they all gave. The men asked are all good-looking, successful in their chosen fields and have no problem getting dates, but they all agreed that to sleep with a stunning woman, was the easiest way was simply to pay.
2. Want to be in control.
Most said there’s something very hot in being able to ask for what you want in bed and get it, no questions asked. (Although one guy did admit he hired an escorts so that SHE could be in charge.) But generally, they all admitted to being more open about what they wanted and more physically satisfied when they paid for sex.
3. Want to indulge in a fantasy.
Most men said, “Escorts are totally open minded, when I hire an escort, I’m not worried about what I ask for. Nothing shocks them.” Although most of the guys we spoke to were all single, the old cliche of men asking escorts for certain “services” that would offend their wives still seems to exist. One man said that he’d never had better oral sex in his life than with an escort.
4. Want to find the quickest route to having sex.
Hiring an escort is so easy. No strings attached, you can choose the woman you want, they arrive at your door. Couldn’t be easier. All the guys we spoke to had used different methods of visiting escorts. Two used different websites, one of which was Norfolk Escorts another visited a brothel and another took an escorts number from a phone box. But they all agreed: it was the quickest way to get sex when they felt the urge.
5. Want to avoid complications.
Men want to have sex without all the nonsense of pretending to be really interested in a girl. When you hire an escort, you don’t have to swap numbers at the end when you know you won’t call. You pay, she leaves. Everyone’s happy.”
Several of the men had previously had one night stands with girls who wouldn’t leave them alone after the fact. They said that sleeping with her seems like a great idea at the time until the girl suggests meeting again, or wants to start dating or having a relationship. As embarrassed as they were to admit it, many of them said the sure-fire way to have no-strings-attached sex is to pay for it.